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Reema – The first Blogess!!

The practice of assigning masculine gender to neutral terms came from the fact that language reflects the prejudices of the society in which it evolved. Throughout history many words changed. Let’s take the word MAN for example! When the word MAN was first used it generically meant “ Human Kind” later it evolved to mean MALE ADULT!  Later on the word WOMAN had to be put into use to differentiate between males and females. Pronouns later on came and he and she were used. WE NEED TO CHANGE THE WORD BLOGGER!!
 
 
 
                                                 
 
(gender-generic, gender-inclusive, non-sexist, or sex-neutral language) are all terms that refer to a language that is neutral to gender. These refer to abstracts whose gender is 1: not indentified 2- wouldn’t really matter anyways! WE NEED IDENTITY GIRLS!!
 
 
 
                                                 
 

Okay girls it is about time that we have our own term!!! Why??

 

1-     I am claiming women rights and later on might conquer the world! J

 

 

2-     Let’s try look at most blogs and see if gender actually mattered! Well it does. Whether it is the design, layout or style of the blog, whether it was the subjects tackled by men or women.. COME ON we all know that they are different. Women get to address more sensitive issues around here while men are more practical even when it comes to their posts. So why not give all the women out there identity?

 
                                                  
 

I thought about this tonight and was trying to come up with a word for all FEMALE bloggers. Mmmmmmmmm Let’s see…

 

 

Actor -----   Actress

 

Waiter ---- Waitress

 

Lion --- Lionesse

 

Prince -- Princess

 

Steward--- Stewardess

 

Sculptor – Sculptress

 

I did a little research about where these suffixes come from, and it seems that when the male word ends with er/or then the female version takes ess.

 

I’m not likely to be the first one to think about this, but am for surethe first to name myself  blogess J

 

Yalla sabaya feee3o!!!
 
 
                                                        

 

 
  
 

Aya turned 14 Today!!

Hi everyone.
 
Aya is my little sister... She turned 14 today :)
 
Pics from today :)
 
Birthday cakes:
 
 
 
 
BIRTHDAY GIRL :)
 
 
 
7amoodi is 12 and this pic is SOOOOOOOOOO ACTING!!!
 
 
 
 
This is more like the truth :) :)
 

MEN and HUNGER!

Okay am sure all the women out there have realized this before. Even our grandma's did and their grand grand ancestors too.
 
When a guy is hungry:
 
Lower levels of hunger:
 
1- He seriously cant think
2- He seriously does not listen
3- Even if he was in love with you, you feel like he hates you.
 
Moderate Levels of Hunger:
 
1- Jo3an is all you hear from the guy ( hungry hungry)
2- YA allaaaaaaaaaaaaaah where is the food
3- You would definately hear this sentence if you were on the phone " listen, dont talk to me righ now am so hungry ... or you know what? I'll call you!"
4- If you were in a place and you were both hungry and now you are eating : he doesnt look at you, he kinda doesnt know you are there aslan, he is sooooooooooooooo into the plate!!
 
 
High levels of Hunger:
 
1- He slaps you
2- He asks you to get the hell out of his face
3- He starts shivering
 
 
To all the girls out there " we have to start learning how to cook!!!" because I seriously think that the best and shortest and fastest way to get into a guy's heart is by coooking and feeding him!" ( wa 3ala 2oolet ekhwanna : 2a2rab taree2 le alb el ragel me3deto!)
 
You girls also have to treat a hungry guy like it was okay!! just live with it.. ( shar la bod menno) ya3ni bedoon za3al w heik.. because obvioulsy on the priority list food ocmes before you :) h3h3h3h3
 
To all the guys out there... You definately look cute while eating even when your hands legs and face are in the plate... but try be sensitive :) h3h3h3h3h3
 
 
I had to express it....
 
                        

      

 
 
 

Joey Tribianni at my Home :)

Okay the title was a joke :)
 
It is not a total joke... honestly...
 
Out of the Friends characters Joey is my favorite why?? he is lazy and dumb yet good looking.. :) I just think he is funny! that's all!
 
 
I bought a new pet :) yes am a bit old to have silly pets bas I kinda like animals :) I had a dog, I had a cat, I had a chick, I had a parrot, and now I have a turtle :) a lovely little cute little turtle :) check him out ....
 
 
 
 
I had to name him.... and that wasnt easy!! now my new pet is very lazy .. hates moving.. and is really DUMB... out of all the pets I've had this one is really lazy and dumb.... and just loves suicide... you hold it in your hands and it just wants to walk to the edge and throw itslef to the ground!!!
 
 
 
 
I want you to meeet MY JOEY :) :) :)
 
 
 

Happy People... Nothing Wrong!!

Some people have a smily face.
 
Some others are hyper most of the time.
 
Some look happy all the time that you actually think they are mentally not stable.
 
Am one of these people who have all three characteristics! Hyper, happy, and smiling. Hala2 that's not what I wanna talk about. What I want to talk about is when am NOT feeling like talking, NOT feeling like JUMPING around!Mybe you just have something on your mind or you are simply TIRED. as simple as that you are just tired!! It happens to me ONCE every two months maybe.. where I really dont feel like jumping around :) hala2 what happens is :
 
1- My parents think im in love and that the guy dumped me and start asking me weird questions!!! Then after my mom and my dad asking me what's wrong (while they are together) . They both secretly come to my room asking me.. like there was a big secret and I am just hiding it.
 
2- My sister ( she is 1 year younger than me and we are close at most times). She also comes asking of what is wrong.
 
3- Abdullah ( a close friend) He is in Canada yet we talk almost everyday on msn. When I have no stories to tell he accusses me of being moody about people, and that Im being not normal.
 
4- At work!!! OH MY GOD that's another story!! questions like : leish 2albi khel2etek? or what is wrong? or what did I do!!! etc etc etc....
 
5- Other friends, that's another story. Comments like what is wrong? and meen mza3lek.. etc etc..
 
Okay .....
 
There is nothing WRONG WITH ME!
 
And it is okay to be less hyper at some times. It is okay for me to be normal :) just like any other human. No i'm not depressed nor am angry at you nor that I hate you, but for some reason I feel calm :) It is as simple as that!
 
To all of you who dont know me personally you might not really get the picture.
 
To those of you who DO know me... There is nothing wrong with me when am not talking :)
 
 
 

Refresh Button, right on my forehead!

There are moments in life where you feel you just want to live them and forget the whole world. You want to be there and not do anything else on earth. You want to stay there forever because there is nothing else that would make you happier. If there was a little button on our foreheads that said REFRESH so that whenever that moment finishes you can simply press the button and the moment starts all over again. WOW

 

On some occasions you are happy, on some you feel you are extra happy, but did you ever feel sad and happy at the same moment??!!! AT THE SAME MOMENT! Well I went throught that yesterday and yes I was happy and yes I was sad! YES at the same moment.. am serious! Thinking back I am smiling “ what the hell did I feel at that moment” was I REALLY happy or was I REALLY sad!! Well I’m not sure how many people have felt that before, and am not sure if any reasonable person would feel that way but I guess a crazy one like myself would get themselves into situations like that. J

 

If I had a refresh button I would have pressed it and pressed it to never get out of that moment. I will try describe the feeling yet it is very hard to describe. Try imagine this: When you are very very very happy doing something. Think of something that makes you the happiest on Earth. How would you feel? You would feel excited, crazy, jumping around. Now think of a thing that would make you the saddest person on earth! Mmmmmmm you would feel terrible wont you?? Now COMBINE them!! That’s exactl the feeling am talking about!! The COMBINATION which is very hard to illustrate never the less describe but just try your best.

 

Now to all the computer freaks out there… I WANT A REFRESH BUTTON ON MY FOREHEAD :)

Who are YOU to JUDGE ME??

Okay I’m pissed!!! VERY pissed! VERY VERY VERY pissed!

 

Why?

 

Someone who knows NOTHING about me has just judged me!! She said something mean. Something I haven’t heard from anyone before nor thought I could be before.

 

Why do we go out there just trying to judge everyone around us? Why do we HAVE to put someone into some category of our own? Why can’t we just let people do what they want without classifying them? Why would it matter to me if the person I know has a different lifestyle or even different beliefs. Why do we all want everyone around us to be LIKE US. Why can’t we just let our egos die and start treating people like they actually know something and are free to express what they want to say and do what they want to do?

 

Don’t judge me

You know shit about me

 

Don’t talk to me

You only say what is mean

 

Who are you to judge?

Your words only make me grudge!

 

I don’t care what you think

It doesn’t affect me it doesn’t make me blink

 

What you know isn’t much

And what you said isn’t as such

 

Try to be fair I have never classified you

To put me in criteria is not the right thing to do

 

What is said is said

and what’s done is done

to me you’re no one!!

 

 

WOW!!

 

I can write J
 
 

Is it possible?

 

She : a girl who is in love and getting closer to be engaged.

He: a nice guy, a good friend, and a cheerful person who is full of life.

 

 

They meet one day and they click. Nothing more nothing less! They love hanging around with each other, and enjoy going out for dinner, movies, or whatever reason. They share good laughs and good talks. They talk to each other on a daily basis, and most of the time more than once a day. She talks about her BF and he talks about his experiences and life stories. They talk about old high school days, university days, what they love doing, what they hate in people etc etc,      to sum it up an innocent friendship.

 

They haven’t known each other for long, but yet have this bonding. They don’t know each other so well, yet it feels like they have known each other for so long. Talking to him is relaxing, and talking to her is worth it. He says he need a female- friend and thinks she is a good listener. For her, even a simple movie outing is more fun when it is with him.

 

They talk about it as they seem to be afraid that this might go in wrong directions. She has no intentions in cheating on her BF and he has no intentions of causing trouble. Or at least this is what they both say.

 

The question is “is this normal?” Is it normal for a girl who has a Bf to be close to another male, knowing that her BF doesn’t like the idea yet she still sees her friend and talks to him. I wouldn’t classify this as cheating, but I would sure say that it isn’t a NORMAL situation in our society nor it is very acceptable by everyone.

 

I personally believe in friendship between genders. I would also say that personally my best friends were always males.

 

Do you think guys and girls could be JUST friends in our society or would it ALWAYS turn out to be something else?

Little things ...

I was reading an article yesterday about how we get little things stress us, and how we should not let the little things sweat us off. There was a part in the article which was talking about how many times we have lost friends, and ever since then and I've been counting how many people I have not talked to in a LONG LONG time. The article just started the thought.
 
 I dont see a lot of people for so many reasons, sometimes because there is simply no time to see everyone you know but things get restricted to certain close people. Sometimes you dont see someone because he/she has done something silly and you didnt really like it and stopped seeing them for that matter. I'm usually being accused for being the always getting herself busy girl. Many people call me up bas 3alashan ybahdilooni like " where the hell have you been?" " why dont you even call" " walik weinik ma 7ada beshoofik??" It is seriously a part of my life now :) It isnt that I make UP excuses but it is because I am seriously at the offie most of the time, if not at the office then at the gym, if not at the gym then sleeping at home :)
 
Last night I called up a friend and she was telling me that she is leaving to Canada on Wednsday and that we should meet up!!! So i called up everyone we know from back in hih school and we all gathered up :) It was really nice and she loved it tooo. The other guys and girls thought that Reema has finally done something :) I'm usually just an invited one and most of the time am not expected to show up :(
 
Well I have a new Year resolution!!! Enough cutting off on your social life and catch up on what u've missed :) I enjoyed last night so much and we all started remembering all the stupid things we have done in hight school. They reminded me of a real funny part of me that I miss so much right now :) They reminded me of when we were rehearsing for our high school graduation Reema holds the mic and starts singing " ma arwa3ak".
 
 
Love,
 
Reema

ليش سموه الأصمعي؟؟

ليش سموه الأصمعي؟؟

في يوم من الأيام كان الشاب الأصمعي ومعه طرفة بن العبد

والأعشى وزهير بن أبي سلمى

ملمومين عند السيد الكريم حاتم الطائي

أكيد حاتم مين غيره بيلم الشباب عنده بالخيمة!!

وهاتك يا لعب وشرب قهوة وضرب كروت

والمهم بلا ما طول عليكم

الأصمعي أيامها كان اسمه تامر

وكانت اللعبة حامية جدا

والشباب عيونهم راح تطق من التركيز

وكانت الجولة الأخيرة جولة مصيرية للشباب وكل واحد رمى الكرت تبعه على الأرض

ما ضل غير تامر...

واتطلع هيك بالشباب ... وعلى وجهة ابتسامة المنتصر

وصرخ بأعلى صوته...

الأص معي

الأص معي

الأص معي يا شباب... ياهوووووووووووو

وسلخه هيك طاخخخخخخخخخ بالأرض.. ثار فيها زوبعة

من الغبار حوالين الشباب..

ومن يومها بطلو

ينادوه تامر .. وصار اسمه

الأصمعي!!



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